I'm pretty interested in maintaining a screen in front of the real me on the Net, but that's not what I'm talking about here.
I mean sexual anonymity. The truly random, anonymous, zipless (Erica Jong used that term) fuck. (Everyone uses that one!)
So, despite the idea that most of us never have, and never will partake in anon. sex, is the idea interesting? Do you like the thought of taking, or being taken, without knowing who the other person is? Sometimes this works one way. For instance, this first picture indicates that perhaps one person knows what's going on.
This photo is from:
Ou Le Secret du Cabinet noir, by Faverolles – Condemned for outrages against public morals. – Destruction ordered per the Cour royale de Paris on December 21, 1822
It appears they had little in the way of a sense of humour in 1822. :-)
In other cases, as ludicrous as this very cute picture by Paul Gavarni is, perhaps neither party knows. (Well, except for the face in the window)
I kind of like the idea of someone opening a door and dragging me in for a little action, I think. I'm not at all sure about putting my genitals through a hole in the wall. That could go very wrong, very fast.
So, what do you think? Tell all. Like the pics?
5 comments:
Naaa...
To just jump into sexual congress with someone as if getting into an elevator with a stranger? Nope. I need a bit more preparation (foreplay? Even if just verbal sparring...) than that, for one thing.
Now, if you're talking about a sudden sexual spark that becomes unbelievably incendiary, and within the course of just a few hours meeting someone going to having a wild, animal, panting, breathlessly playful sexual lollapalloosa with them, yep, that sounds like fun. *grin* I wouldn't think it would happen often, but when chemistry and environment are just perfect, it can be grand. Wouldn't it be wonderful to meet someone, and be delightfully startled by an instant hungry attraction. Find they feel the same way. Flirt shamelessly, kind of testing the waters with each other to see exactly how far the other is willing to take this sexual chemistry. Then almost dare each other to go for broke, and shake off ALL the inhibitions, and go wild? MMMmmmmm...
It occurs to me that one can be MOST uninhibited with a 'stranger', someone you don't ever expect to see again. Because with them, you don't worry if telling them your fantasies of making it underwater with a mermaid in bondage will come back to haunt you in some future argument. You can tell them exactly what you like, and where. You can moan and carry on with no inhibitions. Do you really care if you offend them? You don't expect to see them again.
But just grab (or be grabbed) by someone completely unknown and have sex. Nope. I need to have a little intuitive feeling about them first.
As for genitals through walls - as you said, something could go terribly wrong in an instant. And as a woman, the consideration that the penis (or whatever) protruding through the wall may appear clean, but the hidden body on the other side could be filthy and unkempt ...*shivering* BLEAH!!!!
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Upon deeper consideration, I do find I have a part of my soul that would find it a challenge to be presented with an anonymous man, and be able to give him a sexual memory that will linger in his favorite memories for a long time, by pleasuring him using only those cues acquired in the immediate circumstance.
Maybe the circumstance would have to be a group of previously known male friends ( so I know them, and trust them to a degree) whom I've never been sexual with, and finding myself in a dark room with an unknown which one of them.
You ask some provoking questions!
Wild Angel
To be suddenly dragged into a closet and taken? With no warning, no idea who, no idea of ultimate intention? No. Not so much. I think I would be terrified, and it would take a great deal of skill for the other party to get me from "terrified" to "take me now!"
I've always wondered about the penis-through-the-wall thing. If I were a man I just don't think I could do it. Certainly not anonymously, and who knows what a friend/acquaintance/lover with a sense of humor would do! No thanks. :)
I like the style of the second image better, though I am, as I said, not particularly crazy about the whole "glory hole" theme in general.
So, given those two opinions, what sort of people do put their precious penises through holes in walls then?
I really do like what Wild Angel said.
The thought of the zipless fuck, and sex with a total stranger, wearing masks, is a very exciting fantasy. Ditto random sex in places such as you've shown, with glory holes. And group sex, sex with total strangers.... the mind boggles, doesn't it?
And the likelihood of actually doing any of that?
Well, slim to none. But. It IS enticing. And it maybe, MAYBE, could happen, if a person were to be in a totally new environment. Like Venice. Or Bangkok. Or the other side of the country. Away from anyone who could possibly know you. A place where all bonds were broken, no old rules need apply. And then, you could reinvent yourself and be totally wantonly slutty.......
Hmmmm...... Thank you for your suggestions leading to such lovely thoughts!
I live in New Zealand, and it's something of a tradition to go travelling overseas for a year or so after finishing high school here.
It's a long way to anywhere but Australia, and I think the distance is at least part of the reason the chances of having a rampantly sexual adventure with a Kiwi girl are much greater should you find her in Europe, or Africa.
In fact there could we be a direct relationship to distance from home.
When these girls return, their habits generally return also, and they regain some shyness, some reserve, and more than a little common sense. That's as it should be, but perhaps it's a pity as well.
:-)
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