Red

A new story. Somewhat old-school. Not nearly so old-school as this though...

It's more than a colour. Much more. Love and lust in the city.

His hands found their way to my ass again, and he pulled me to him. My legs bent a little, my knees parted, and his tongue explored its way between my legs, between my sopping labia, and suddenly he was inside me.

You can find it on SOL and ASSTR.

I've added a few others lately as well. You might like to check them out at SOL or ASSTR.

Is anyone reading this? Write and let me know

I've been updating stuff with my newly built website, and have also added some more stories.

Have fun with these:

Oh sorry, I mean these: :-)

• Dinner was great
• It wasn't the feel
• Short and sweet
• Victoriana

Enjoy, and let me know.

Fifteen Months

It's been a little while...

What happened was this:

• I got busy


• I got stressed


• I got busier


• I decided that I needed to stop something I was doing


• I regretfully decided that something was going to have to be my stories


• I stopped writing


• I stopped posting


• I disappeared (hopefully after saying goodbye)


• I got things somewhat sorted


• I wrote a few stories, and send them to a much reduced set of friends


• I got feedback


• I realised I really like feedback, good or bad


• I decided that I could possibly find some middle ground, and spend some time with the stories


• I completely rebuilt my website at ASSTR, using CSS. Thank all the Gods that I used a database in the first place


• I simplified things


• I uploaded a couple of things

So, you can check out what's been happening

It Certainly Wasn't a Conscious Decision - ASSTR - SOL

Sneak 1 - ASSTR - SOL

Sneak 2 - ASSTR

I'd really like to know what you think!

Gentle.

Sugasm #40

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Panties or Knickers?

I got some feedback from a friend today. He's sent me nearly 100 sets of comments. Some nice, some not.

Something he said though, got me thinking. I can't think of a better way to find out...

Doesn't the word "panties" make this a sexier story "knickers"? ;-)

Does it? Opinions here. Come on, I dare ya.



For context, I live in New Zealand. Knickers is the common term here; something we inherited from the British. Increasing American influence has affected that along with everything else though, and it could be that the next generation have a different opinion. Time will tell.

In my stories, though, I'm generally aware of my primarily North American audience, and use the appropriate terms (I draw the line at spelling).

Recently I posted this story with a deliberately Kiwi (that's a New Zealander) vocabulary. I even provided a glossary for the less travelled and terminally introverted. :-) That's what caused the response in the first place, though my friend was talking about a different story just now.

I'm really interested in what you think.

Sugasm #38

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Teeth

Something I was saying in my newsletter, that I thought might be useful here...

What else? I have read Anne Rice's Lasher before, so I gave up on it, and moved on to something else. It's connected, in a way.

I'm a big fan of vampires (well, reading about them), but a few years ago I picked up a book in the library about werewolves. It was good. Sexy, exciting, inevitably a little violent. Then I found there was a sequel. I read that too. Great stuff. There is a point here. I'm getting to it.

If you're interested, these books were The Passion and The Promise, and they were written by Donna Boyd. So what's the connection? It just so happens that Donna Boyd is Anne Rice's sister!

Anyway, right now I'm reading another of her books, involving neither vampires nor werewolves so far... The Awakening. I'll let you know how it goes.

By the way, did you know that Anne Rice wrote erotica back in the day? Bondage stuff, even. Just recently, she's returned, publicly, to her Roman Catholic roots. I suspect we won't be hearing too much more of this sort of stuff from her.

So, does anyone else have any recommendations for sexy-scary books?

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Meat and Veg

...so to speak.

I've had a few discussions (via email) over the last few days with some readers of my stories. That's not unusual. What is strange is that a number of them seemed to cover the same ground.

Girls, for some reason, like to tell me things. I'm happy about that. I like to listen. :-)

I'm also very quiet about what I hear. I might tell you some details, but never enough that you could even try to work out where the details come from. Anyway, it's like this.

Lots of ladies/girls/women like to masturbate. No surprise there, thankfully. Hell, I encourage them. Lots of them do it different ways, but just of late, I've had a lot of people tell me how they like to masturbate with something foreign pushed firmly inside them.

Not a vibrator, or a dildo as such. Not a hairbrush, or anything like that. But stick with that shape, and visit the produce section. Yeah, that's it. Vegetables.

Why oh why are girls putting veges where the meat usually goes? :-)

Is it an underground movement? A group of unbearably frustrated females banding together to get group orgasm? it seems not, because generally speaking they would never dream of discussing it with one another. Nope. They tell me though. :-)

So is there any consistency? Any common denominator? Yep. Carrots and bananas are common, but by far the thing I hear about most are cucumbers. Short, long, wide, skinned or not, cucumber, it seems, is king.

I wonder if there should be a special section at the supermarket? Sized and graded vegetables for self abuse. Cuntcumbers, so to speak. Or perhaps cu-cum-bers.

So, has anyone got any stories for me, because, even though I searched fairly thoroughly, it seems I've never written a vege-diddling story. God only know why not! :-)

Sugasm 35

As always, your mileage may vary. Enjoy.

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T and A

Sometimes, just sometimes, it's not about tits and ass. Really.

Sometimes, it's something more pure than that. More innocent, more lovely. Sometimes, just once in a while, it's about...


...a smile, or the twinkle of an eye, or the shape of a nose, or the knowing look. Sometimes, when you get beyond T&A, there's something else, something magical.






Of course, sometimes, it's ALL about tits and ass. Sometimes.

Oh dear. I haven't posted ANYTHING! Must make more time!

Sugasm #34

Tue 16th May, 06
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Sugasm 32

I'm trying this out for the first time. I can't test all these links... YMMV!

Sugasm #32

Tue 2nd May, 06
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Erotic Writing
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Dicktionary

I have a friend who was anorgasmic, the poor girl. That is, she was, until she tried frottage; a nooner scissor fight if you like, with her sex surrogate.

Confused? I hope not, but if you are, this site just might help. And if they can't help you, then maybe you can help them. I dare ya!

The Sex Dictionary arrived via Goodshit.

Oh, and for frottage... read this. Next Time.

Girl on girl

I've talked about Eros Blog before...

They just posted this. I shamelessly stole it, so I could post it too.

I probably should be ashamed, but I'm not. :-)


I'm not going to explain the attraction either. You do, or you don't :-)

A solo career...

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More on anonymity

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